Obituary // Ed McNeil

Edward Dean McNeil was born on October 11, 1948, in Kansas City, Missouri, and was raised as an only child by Joseph and Eunice McNeil. Although an only child, Ed never lacked companionship—he spent much of his childhood with his cousins, forming close bonds that lasted a lifetime.

From a young age, Ed was energetic and athletic, always on the move. He enjoyed gymnastics, running, basketball, skiing, racing, playing pool, and bowling, bringing enthusiasm and determination to everything he did. Along the way, he became known by many names—Eddy, Fast Eddie, Stubby, and later, Papa Ed—each reflecting a different season of his life and the many people who loved him.

Ed graduated from Lee’s Summit High School in 1966 and immediately answered the call to serve his country by enlisting in the United States Navy. He proudly completed two tours during the Vietnam War.

Ed was an over-the-road truck driver in 1979 when he met Nancy Moore, unexpectedly fell in love, and the two were married. Just one month later Ed made the most important decision of his life when he accepted Jesus Christ as his Savior.

In 1981, Ed took a position at American Compressed Steel, allowing him to stay close to home. After a few years, he returned to driving over the road, continuing his strong work ethic and dedication to providing for his family. Ed and Nancy were blessed with three children—Tabitha, Natalie, and Tanner—whom they lovingly raised in Gladstone, Missouri. Together, they created a home rooted in faith and love.

Ed struggled with his walk with the Lord because of his past, but in 1994 he suffered a stroke that changed everything. From that time on he committed himself fully to Jesus. He knew that God spared him for a purpose. Ed became a devoted man of prayer and a faithful member of New Life Community Church and in time was called to serve as an elder.

During his recovery, a lifeline came from his boss and dear friend at American Compressed Steel, who offered him a job. He recovered, accepted the position, and was soon introduced to what became one of his greatest joys—golfing one-handed.

Following his retirement, Ed began working part-time at Avis, where he formed many meaningful friendships. In his free time, he loved playing golf and spending quality time with family and friends. Each morning at 5:00 a.m., Ed faithfully kept his standing appointment with Jesus, beginning his day in prayer for his family, friends, his church, and every new person who entered his life.

On December 12, 2025, with his wife and three children by his side, Ed was welcomed into his heavenly home.

Ed was preceded in death by his father, Joseph McNeil; his mother, Eunice (Earl) Barrett; and his son, Michael Hibdon.

Ed is survived by his wife, Nancy McNeil; his children, Tabitha (Sky) Hounschell, Natalie McNeil, and Tanner McNeil; eight grandchildren, Garrett Hounschell, Arabella Hounschell, Sidney Warkentien, Ziah McNeil, Raven Hibdon, Talisa Hibdon, Weston Hibdon, and Ashton Hibdon; and his sister, Jane (Wes) Cook.+

In lieu of flowers, Ed requested that donations be made to New Life Community Church in his memory. Contributions may be sent to:

New Life Community Church
10500 Central St.
Kansas City, MO 64155